This final month of the Jewish year, the month of Elul, is generally set aside as a time to remember. We remember our actions of the past year considering whether they were of value or frivolous, whether we were a help or a hindrance, whether we accomplished something of worth or just "took up space" over this past year. And in our thoughts, we examine how we can improve during this coming year, 5770.

At Kever Avot, the annual remembrance service that will be held at the Mt. Moriah Cemetery September 13th, we will gather to remember our loved ones of the past. We will think about the lessons they taught and the good foods they served and we will remember them.

Maybe it is time to forgive that petty argument. Can we be more involved with our synagogue? A commitment to more regularly attend Shabbat services could be a great start. A promise to spend more quality time with your spouse and family would be ideal.

Philosophers tell us that we cannot know where to go unless we know where we've been. We cannot make improvements in our lives unless we know and understand what we have done in the past. Forget the past and we are doomed to repeat it, so I encourage each and every member to take the time during Elul to think about last year and let us resolve to make those life improvements that will benefit our families, our community, and ourselves. Elul is the month of examination and planning for the next year so I urge everyone to think about last year so that when you attend Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur services, you'll be prepared to ask G-d for forgiveness of past situations and resolve to change.

Rabbi Rubovits